Sunday, April 29, 2007

My baby is 6...6!!!! today

Ella turns six today. How old that is! Madison turned six only 20 months ago. Here she is wearing the beautiful white dress Tatiana gave her.

We had a very low-key birthday party for her at her ballet studio. I love parties where all you have to do is get the cake and bring along your cute kid, and they do the rest. A dozen little girls tumbled, they danced, they did a craft, sang happy birthday to Ella, and ate ice cream cake. We opened the presents at home, because we try to have birthday parties not be about the presents, but about giving guests a good time.





Then we went to Chili's for dinner, where a half-dozen teenage waiters and waitresses sang and clapped "Happy Happy Birthday" to my lovely little girl.








But I think this was my favorite photo of all. The Snuggle With Daddy After Opening Presents photo.




Sunday, April 22, 2007

Science Educators and Science Education

For the last four days, I've been in New York City at the Bronx Zoo for a 3-day workshop that I attended with the two education coordinators from the local zoo, the Seneca Park Zoo. Seven 3-person teams from all over the northeast attended this workshop. The sponsoring group was "SPARKS" -- "Supporting Parents in Advocacy, Research, and Knowledge in Science." Attendees were from "ISI's" -- Informal Science Institutions -- with a parent representative from the community.

I want to write about this experience but don't know quite how to organize it, mostly because it, itself was not organized well. None of us who were attending knew quite what we were attending for, what the ultimate point of this all was, other than promoting science education with parents. I went because, well, partly I really see this kind of thing as part of my job with KidsOutAndAbout.com -- one of my missions is to promote science and to spark parents' interest in their kids education, as a subset of my main mission, to promote reason in the culture. I also went as a homeschooling parent, because I had a vague expectation that perhaps they would inundate me with ideas and resources and creativity for stuff to do with kids that I hadn't thought of.

We couldn't really tell until the end of the second day that what they wanted was for us to do the exact same 2-day workshop with a bunch of parents that we were getting: Some vague stuff from the education schools about how children learn, circadian rhythms, the "multiple intelligences" idea which is just oh, so fashionable but when you look at Gardiner's premises and what he actually says (which we didn't) you can see that what he is saying is not only unprofound but untrue. Also on the morning of the second day, the instructors tried to take us from:
    Structured inquiry....bad to

    Guided inquiry....better to

    Open-ended inquiry....the ideal, but usually not attainable


So in essence I pointed out that this is nonsense. "I have seen some of this kind of thing before," I pointed out to the group charmingly, sweeting, and pseudo-naively, "but I must say, I just can't see the point of what is being called "open inquiry." Sure, what we want is for kids to use their brain themselves and to want to do it, but that's not the same thing as is being promoted here. Kids NEED context, they NEED information, they NEED guidance. This kind of advocates throwing a kid into a situation with no preparation and then letting them get messy and dirty in whatever it is, without showing them how to focus their attention on some specific thing they could learn from. Let me tell you what the effect has been in mathematics with the way education has been promoting this exact same concept over the past 15-20 years, my husband has seen the effect close up...KIDS CAN'T DO MATH when they get to college..."

I will be proud of myself for getting the whole group so much on my side with this that the instructors are revising their presentation for that segment of the workshop. "What I'm hearing here is that people are coming to an agreement that guided inquiry is being seen as more the ideal than open-ended inquiry...is that right?" Heads nodded vigorously. "OK, we'll revisit this for the next group that we work with, in Chicago in May."

I have more to say here, but I will close with how much it struck me that

1) Science educators are so different from scientists.

2) How low their standards are both for parent involvement AND for how much scientific knowledge kids can absorb.

This fact-fact-FACT-oriented mom was appalled.

Monday, April 09, 2007

The easiest kid party ever, with the biggest payoff

We had an Easter egg hunt on Saturday, with 400 eggs and about 30 kids. It has to be the best kind of party to have ... preparation is a snap, and fun. Hosting it is a snap, and fun. It's short, only an hour, so it's not as though you're entertaining people endlessly, but everyone has a great time and then leaves to go off and do their own thing that day. They even put their candy trash in the bags and the eggs in the big box once they've opened them up. This party gives the biggest bang for the buck because it doesn't matter how many kids you have, you can always accommodate more. And it's a great way to reciprocate for having been guests at other peoples' houses, you no longer feel like you owe them one. And YOUR kids get to be the ones with the cool annual Easter egg hunt.

We did it in the freezing cold snow flurries, and every one still had a blast. It only cost me the amount of about 10 bags of candy, 2 prizes for the gold and silver egg (fancy bubble-blowers) and $15 to rent a coffee urn for the weekend.

Here's the article on KidsOutAndAbout.com that got me to do this. The lady who wrote it actually gave me all of her old eggs, so I didn't even need to go out and buy eggs. That's how the whole article got started -- she asked me if I wanted her eggs, because her own kids were too old and the eggs were cluttering up the basement.

It was great. I highly recommend it. And nowadays, all the eggs are on sale, so go out and get them and prepare for next year.

Ella's Math EXPLOSION

Ella had a math explosion last weekend, a big one. First, she showed that she has mastered the concept of multiplication. If you ask her 6 x 8, for example, she'll figure it out, somehow, counting in her head. It's fairly amazing.

Then, we decided that she was ready to be introduced to X. And by god, that child loves X. x + 4 = 12? No problem, give me one harder. x - 3 = 15? Oh, come on, I need a harder one. x - 6 = 22 ... ok, that's hard enough. Um, maybe a little too hard! Ok, it's 28. Give me another! Another! Another! When I've been giving her a set of 12 problems for school, she gets through them in 5 minutes.

X is now Ella's best friend, and has been our constant companion for a week.

I love this.